Invisible Bond

Lost in the forest of the lies I’ve told myself. Hiding from you deep in the dark, scared of the weakness you make me crave. The way you have predicted my past and created my future, only leaves me lost in the present. Anyone can touch flesh but only you have felt my soul. Shattered pieces […]

Black Walnut Stained Mini Rattan Scourge ~Review by Jen

Black Walnut Stained Mini Rattan Scourge The owner of SinsualSteel, Ray, and I discussed what product should i review for his business, and also give to one of the WCDT (Whips, Chains & Duct Tape) fans. There was one i was interested, had been for a while now, the “Mini Rattan Scourge”. Ray promised me […]

Great Spanking Info!

AUTHOR: Welcome! This site is meant for anyone who has been having fantasies or obsessions about spanking but don’t know what, if anything, to ever do about it. It is also meant as a resource for friends of spankos, so that they may better understand what their friend or partner is going through and […]

The Drops

Having sub-drop is not easy no matter what is going on in your life. Even if you have a support group, and great aftercare it can still happen. The best way to get through this is to be prepared, know the signs and communicate to your Dom/me. There is a ton of information on varies […]

What’s new with WCDT?

WCDT has joined KIK (an app for phones and tablets) for one on one advice, discussion or just general support from myself, search VioletTempest13 and please let me know that you found me via WordPress. Also i am always up for promoting others work, so if you have a blog or have wrote something about BDSM, LGBT+ […]

BDSM Books

Here are some books that i recommend for anyone in the lifestyle that want to gain a better understanding of BDSM. More Than Two byFranklin Veaux & Eve Rickert Everything BDSM by Abbey Pointer & John Pointer BDSM: The Naked Truth by Charley Ferrer SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman […]

The Collar

The Collar by Jen A collar is NOT a joke! It is NOT some pretty necklace your boyfriend bought you! It NOT something you should be taking after submitting last week! It is a bond, between Master/slave, Dom/sub, Daddy/lg (and other dynamics) that is SUPPOSE to last a lifetime, it is and should be treated […]