There is no room in Poly or BDSM for lies. Lies will destroy all types of relationships. Don’t let the lies make you question yourself, or your worth. This isn’t just about Dominants either, trust me I know some submissives that are just as guilty. IF you care so little about that person, end the relationship, […]

Be true to oneself 

When first discovering the BDSM/Poly lifestyle, it would be wise to go in with an open mind and a closed mouth (you will learn more listening instead of talking). Also there is not a “how-to” BDSM manual, so that means you have to actually put in the time and effort to educate yourself. Educating yourself […]

Invisible Bond

Lost in the forest of the lies I’ve told myself. Hiding from you deep in the dark, scared of the weakness you make me crave. The way you have predicted my past and created my future, only leaves me lost in the present. Anyone can touch flesh but only you have felt my soul. Shattered pieces […]

Black Walnut Stained Mini Rattan Scourge ~Review by Jen

Black Walnut Stained Mini Rattan Scourge The owner of SinsualSteel, Ray, and I discussed what product should i review for his business, and also give to one of the WCDT (Whips, Chains & Duct Tape) fans. There was one i was interested, had been for a while now, the “Mini Rattan Scourge”. Ray promised me […]

Great Spanking Info!

AUTHOR: Welcome! This site is meant for anyone who has been having fantasies or obsessions about spanking but don’t know what, if anything, to ever do about it. It is also meant as a resource for friends of spankos, so that they may better understand what their friend or partner is going through and […]

The Drops

Having sub-drop is not easy no matter what is going on in your life. Even if you have a support group, and great aftercare it can still happen. The best way to get through this is to be prepared, know the signs and communicate to your Dom/me. There is a ton of information on varies […]

BDSM Books

Here are some books that i recommend for anyone in the lifestyle that want to gain a better understanding of BDSM. More Than Two byFranklin Veaux & Eve Rickert Everything BDSM by Abbey Pointer & John Pointer BDSM: The Naked Truth by Charley Ferrer SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman […]